Coming Home: A Place of Meaning
Tom Breidenthal
Ministry Connection to St. Michaels

The Rt. Rev. Thomas Breidenthal died on May 14th.
He began ordained ministry in July, 1981 at St. Michaels as deacon and then priest. He maintained a friendship with this community across the years. Tom chose a disability retirement and returned to Portland. The Celebration of his Life took place on June 11th at Trinity Cathedral.
In the spring of 1981 there were some growth spurts at St. Michael. The Rector and a Team began working on a position description for an additional priest. It was quite specific, and progressive in spirit, including the possibility of either a man or a woman to fill this position. We had lots of enthusiasm, but not sufficient funds.
It happened in late May that the Rector (John) and spouse Alice stopped at Sylvias Italian Restaurant on Sandy Blvd. for a light supper after a concert. There were two former parishioners seated at a table, and they beckoned to us to please join them. Edie Horton and Jane Zack (formerly Hilyard) had been very active in the Christian Education program in the parish. Jane was currently Director of Christian Education at Christ Church, Lake Oswego.
Their obvious question was “What’s happening at St. Michaels? I bubbled over with enthusiasm with our hopes for another priest, and saying that we were not quite financially ready to act. Jane Zack spoke up to say – We had this fantastic seminarian at Christ Church last summer. He’s wonderful! And tomorrow is the day the two seminary graduates will meet with the bishop to be assigned to their first positions.
The meeting is at the Bishop’s office at 10:30 am.
I spent the night thinking about this opportunity, and the glowing report. First thing I called my Senior Warden, Mina Launt. I described the situation/opportunity, and said to her, “Mina, do we wait, or do we put the oar in the water.” Mina immediately responded, “Put the oar in the water!”
Thus, I showed up at Bishop Bigliardi’s office – uninvited, and unannounced, at 10:30. I had never met Tom, learned his story, or interviewed him. I wasn’t sure what he looked like. But when the Bishop paused to inquire about my presence, I said, “We want Tom.”
And – I/We got him! And he got us!
Then there was the matter of the necessary money. Yes, the Diocesan Residency Program would help us. We needed an additional $5,000 to make this possible. Not my skill set! Yet I spent that weekend seeking 10 people who would each contribute $500.
There was so much creative energy and hope throughout the parish for this next step forward. And, the reading from the Acts of the Apostles that Sunday morning described the new energy in the emerging church, The text says “that 5000 were added to their number that day!” Every Year A when I hear that passage I chuckle. Yes, it’s in the Book! We did this!
After two rich years at St. Michaels Tom received a Fellowship from the Episcopal Church Foundation and was off to Oxford University where he studied Ethics with Oliver O’Donovan and graduated as Doctor of Philosophy.
We stayed in touch over the years as friends. He and Margaret returned to St. Michaels in 1984 to be married. He had a long run as Professor ot Ethics at the General Theological Seminary in New York City. Tom and Margaret became New Yorkers. Their daughters Magdalene and Lucy attended St. Hilda and St. Hugh School on Morningside Heights. The school was under the auspices of the Community of the Holy Spirit, a community that Alice and I had also come to know and love.
In 2007 Tom was elected Bishop of Southern Ohio. He invited me to be one of his presenters at his ordination in Columbus. This was a great day!
Since Tom’s return to Portland we developed a custom of monthly lunches. At our last time Tom told me that he had lesions on his liver and was going in for a biopsy. Then we all got that poignant announcement from the current bishop of Southern Ohio that Tom had a fast growing cancer with little time remaining for him. His time here in Portland has been very fruitful. He has had amazing ministry at Trinity Cathedral. He has pursued his love of poetry. He has made time daily for AA meetings and for nurturing his new life in recovery.
About a week before Tom’s death my older son Stephen and I went to visit him in his apartment in The Pearl. His daughter Lucy was there – he sent her out for a walk. And the Hospice caregiver was there – Tom sent him off to another room. Tom said he wanted to have a private conversation – with us. And we were there for an hour and a half. He talked through a lot of pieces of his life. Near the end of the conversation Tom looked at me and said, “I would like to have two places in the Columbarium at St. Michael and All Angels.” I was deeply moved by this. I passed his words on to his daughters and they made arrangements.
Tom’s ashes were placed in the St. Michael’s Columbarium in the presence of his family and close friends on the afternoon of June 11th.
The Rev. John S Scannell
Rector Emeritus
St. Michael & All Angels Church
Portland OR